How?
How do you deal with someone who is so conservative and so un-open to change? How do you deal with someone who twists whatever is said into benefiting themselves to the point where they won't be the bad person? How do you deal with someone who has become so delusional that the grip on reality has slipped into more of a view from a distance? How do you deal with the someone who's view of themself is so skewed that when things are painfully obvious they choose to ignore them?I'm asking myself these questions on the hour, every hour now that Hurricane Bertha is here. Seriously, I'm not someone who gets stressed very easily. My stress level is so high right now, I'm ready to do something drastic. Hurricane Bertha is so ludacris that no one can deal with her. She had another huge fight with my good grandmother today. This one was about my sister, once again. This time, she threw a big huff about "not being invited" to Mindy's to see the place. Last night my father asked her THREE times if she wanted to see Mindy. No answer. Three times mind you. Mindy wanted to see her until she found out exactly how ugly Bertha has been. It's toxicity at it's finest.
The finest point she made was that "she doesn't hold a grudge." Yet, last night, she went off about a drawing my dad did of a knight when he was 13. The drawing did not receive an award because the judge said "it was a copy." Now this woman believes she doesn't hold a grudge. However, she saw this judge the other day, in his wheelchair and almost went up to him to give him hell about not giving a ribbon to dad's drawing. Are you fucking kidding me? That's FORTY-FOUR years ago! And she doesn't hold a grudge?
Fuck it. I need hard liqour.